Father's Day is an occasion to express gratitude and love for our fathers. It's not just a single day, but a tribute to the entire life a father dedicates to his children's happiness. This article will discuss the significance and history of Father's Day, a father's role, and his responsibilities in today's changing society.
What is Father's Day and why is it celebrated?
Father's Day is celebrated worldwide on the third Sunday of June each year. This day is dedicated to honoring fathers, remembering their contributions, and expressing our feelings towards them.
While mothers are considered the embodiment of 'maternal care,' fathers are seen as the pillars of 'values' and 'protection.' From childhood to adolescence and into adulthood, a father is always present like a shadow—silently, selflessly, and resolutely.
History of Father's Day
The celebration of Father's Day originated in the United States. In 1910, Sonora Smart Dodd, a woman from Washington state, proposed this day. Her father raised six children alone after his wife's death. Sonora felt that just as mothers' contributions are honored on Mother's Day, there should be a special day for fathers as well.
In 1972, it was officially recognized in the US by President Richard Nixon, and gradually, this tradition spread to other countries.
A Father's Role: More Than Just a Provider, a Family Guide
As we discuss changing relationships in society, we must understand that fathers are not only the economic pillars of the family but also the emotional backbone.
- Source of Inspiration
As children, when we fall, mothers embrace us, and fathers teach us to get up. They say, "Let's try again." This lesson stays with us throughout life.
- Learning Self-Reliance
Fathers teach us to stand on our own feet. They want us to not fear difficulties but face them.
- Discipline and Values
While mothers shower affection, fathers teach discipline and decorum. Life values derived from their experiences make life's journey easier.
- A Friend
In modern times, the role of fathers has changed significantly. They are no longer just disciplinarians but have become friends to their children. They now sit and talk with their children, understand their likes and dislikes, and provide emotional support.
The Image of a Father in Indian Society
In the Indian family system, the father is considered the head of the household. Traditionally, they have been considered decision-makers, economic providers, and instillers of values in children.
However, this image is changing with time. Today's fathers are also participating in household chores, helping with children's studies, and are more emotionally connected with their children.
The COVID-19 Pandemic and a Father's Role
The COVID-19 pandemic taught us many things, especially that family is the true strength. During this period, millions of fathers lost their jobs, faced economic hardships, but made every effort to secure their children's future. Many realized how resilient and b their fathers were.
Becoming a Father: An Emotional Journey
When a man becomes a father, a new chapter begins in his life. He now lives not only for himself but for his children. Sleepless nights, increased fatigue, but when a child's smile is received, all tiredness fades away.
The Importance of Father's Day in Changing Times
In today's fast-paced life, where people are busy with mobile phones, social media, and career pursuits, Father's Day offers an opportunity to pause, reflect, and spend time with one's father.
Expensive gifts are not necessary on Father's Day. A simple "thank you" and "I'm grateful for what you've done" can also bring a smile to a father's face.
How to Celebrate Father's Day?
There are many simple and creative ways to make Father's Day special:
Give a handwritten letter or card expressing your feelings.
Organize a meal of your father's favorite food and spend time with him.
Frame an old photograph that will refresh his memories.
Listen to stories of your father's life journey; this will not only strengthen your bond but also inspire you.
Have a small family gathering.
The Greatest Gift for a Father
Truthfully, the greatest gift for any father is his children's happiness and success. When a son or daughter progresses in life through hard work, they make their father's struggles meaningful.
Fathers always want their children to live better lives than they did. They don't want their children to struggle as they did. This feeling motivates them to work day and night.
Every Day Should Be Father's Day
Although Father's Day comes only once a year, we shouldn't forget that a father does something for us every day. Therefore, we should honor him and express our gratitude towards him every day of the year.
